didnt wanna make a mountain out of a molehill but u just HAD to go write a blog entry like this. you, of all people, should really know how much i HATE HATE HATE being wronged. cos now you're making it sound like WE were the ones who picked a squabble, and made everything the way it is. making us look like we're the bad guys.
i suppose im saying this on behalf of the few of us.
you are disappointed? hell, WE ARE ALL DISAPPOINTED. with you.
one morning we just woke up and realised, you and jasmine are like BFFs, and we are nothing to you. and we dont even know why. suddenly, you dont call us anymore. suddenly, you are not free to meet up. suddenly, when we ask you to come meet us, west side is too far for you. when before you and jasmine were close, you could always cab all the way down, even after midnight.
are you gonna say that we dont care?
1. when all of us felt that you were down and moody, we msned u to ask whats wrong. not once, not twice, but quite a few times. what did we get? your very cold attitude and replies like "nothing", "long story" and "dont feel like saying". we try to probe? we get ignored. then u go write stuff on your fb and twitter saying you wanna MIA and stuff. so we figured, maybe u want some time alone. and in the end, you say we are friends that dont care. unfair much???
2. about Jas bday. how much did you care?
yes, in the beginning, Jas did ask u to help plan her bday. but if i rmb correctly, the first date u settled on was the 19th. and then you wanted to change it to the 20th. everything was going fine, until Jas told you that she felt that 19th was a better date to celebrate. then you threw your temper at Jas, and everything snowballed from there. yeah i know, you had your own problems to settle. everything wasnt going exactly swell for you. but Jas didnt deserve to be treated that way either.
and from then, u refused to care an ounce about whatever Jas was doing for her bday, saying stuff like you arent free on the 19th. i personally texted you to ask if you and jasmine wanna share her present. no reply. if you cared enough, a late reply would be better than none.
then you emailed me asking about my fb status. and asked me who, when and where's the bday celebrations. i thought you were gonna tell me you were coming. and then...
you: When's the bday ah? and where. Ha. Who's going?
me: Which bday? Samantha’s or Jas’s? LOL~ well, we’re going
to Clarke quay for dinner, this sat. then after that we see how. She wants to drink, but we havent decided on the place.
you: Jas la. Like I know Samantha like that. =.=" Eh. Whos going?
me: Kmiang Cheryl me jon karin & a few of their friends I think. Cel until now refuse to give a definite answer. but me and jas told her if we don’t see her face, she is dead. No excuses.
you: oh. ok.
yup. that's all i got from you. "oh. ok." i figured, if you really wanted to go, you wouldve said so already. so no point me asking AGAIN.
FYI, Jas was really disappointed that you didnt come, didnt share the present, and didnt even text/fb to wish her happy birthday. it was her 21st. all she wanted was to change the date of celebrations, keeping whatever activities you planned. but, apparently it was too much for you.
3. i hate cold wars. like how there's this problem and it remains unsolved cos both parties refuse to talk about it. so i decided to take the initiative to email you. sent you a super duper long email to just talk things out, and try to undo whatever misunderstandings in between. yes, i thought it was settled too. i thought everything was fine already. then the next thing i know, this blog entry of yours popped out of nowhere. and the little reply that followed your blog entry - totally uncalled for. if you dont know anything, dont comment.
stop making us look like we started this quarrel. stop making us look like we are the ones that are so 无情. and stop making us look like we are a whole bunch of lousy friends.
4. if you want to say that we are crap friends for not inviting you to Jas's celebrations, i'd beg to differ. Von's bday celebration. not a single one of us heard any news. and not a single one of us was invited. at least we made the effort to invite and inform.
5. wow, so now you have all the time in the world to plan holidays and getaways. i remember in the beginning, we were supposed to go taiwan together from such a long time ago. Jas and i even remember you saying "nobody can back out! if not pay for the rest of us!" so now am i supposed to get you to pay for our trip??? cos if i recall correctly, you just backed out on us. yes you probably had the best of reasons to do so. cant get away from work. but why do you have to act so 理直气壮 about it? a simple "sorry" wouldve helped a whole lot.
so now you're saying that we are this whole lot who are supposed to get off your train.
has it ever occured to you that instead, maybe you are the one stepping off all of our trains???
and to the rest of you who think that we are a whole bunch of mean, crappy, and lousy friends who dont care. think again. you could be in our shoes this time next year. then you will 'see the light'. much like how we saw ours.
ps. we are not the first to get this kinda treatment from her, just so y'know.
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