how true. parents have a reputation to annoy (their daughters especially).
my parents are irritatingly annoying. how? i dont even want to go into the details. but i hate it when they EXPECT me to be free all the time for them. 1 hr earlier ring me up for dinner and expect me to be there. like as if i dont have my own life to live. does it not run thru their pathetic square brains that i may have alrdy have plans made?!
im like that. u push me to see u and pester me on the phone, i'll try ways and means to siam. but if u leave me alone to do wat i want, naturally i'll find time for u. so take ur pick. when i say "no im busy" it means im busy. dont ask me to shuffle my timings cos i wouldve done that if it was possible. u expect me to travel the extra miles to just HAVE DINNER?! honestly, dinner wouldnt taste any better with or without me ok. and wat is all the "come home STRAIGHT after dinner" shit. when i want to come home i will. and when the SON decides to stay out late for watever, its perfectly fine u know. but its not fine for THE DAUGHTER?! wtf. i dont like to do things just to PLEASE somebody, even if its my dad. if i sincerely want to have dinner or go out, i will. just dont say stuff like "come back ok. i dont want daddy to see that ure not home and get angry again." then he can get angry for all i care. im not gonna just COME HOME just to make him happy. cos anyway he wont be. all he knows is just to nag nag nag, nag this nag that, show me some blardy black face and find stuff to scold again. give me one good reason then, why the f would i wanna be home just to "please" him when i can do a whole lot more to "please" myself.
i realised that the kind of parents who have a good and happy healthy relationship with their kids (believe me there are) are the kind who actually give their kids the space they need. honestly, u pple gotta wake up your stupid idea that life is wat u tink it is. cos it isnt. this is freaking 2007. WAKE UP UR BLOODY IDEA.
nuff said. im done for the day. 1 phonecall just put me in a bad mood.
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