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25 September 2009
just happened to pop by an old friend's blog, and realised how wrong i was. how i shouldnt have just listened to one side of the story. how i shouldnt have swallowed the story whole and not find out more.
and reading her entry dated back in March, i realised, how both of us ended up trusting one person too much and getting stabbed in the back real bad. when this kinda stuff happen twice, it isnt really coincidence now, is it?
i have a very long blog entry sitting in my drafts.
i dont know if i should post it.
and reading her entry dated back in March, i realised, how both of us ended up trusting one person too much and getting stabbed in the back real bad. when this kinda stuff happen twice, it isnt really coincidence now, is it?
i dont know if i should post it.
24 September 2009
totally wasnt expecting things to turn out like this. seriously, not from you.
didnt wanna make a mountain out of a molehill but u just HAD to go write a blog entry like this. you, of all people, should really know how much i HATE HATE HATE being wronged. cos now you're making it sound like WE were the ones who picked a squabble, and made everything the way it is. making us look like we're the bad guys.
i suppose im saying this on behalf of the few of us.
you are disappointed? hell, WE ARE ALL DISAPPOINTED. with you.
one morning we just woke up and realised, you and jasmine are like BFFs, and we are nothing to you. and we dont even know why. suddenly, you dont call us anymore. suddenly, you are not free to meet up. suddenly, when we ask you to come meet us, west side is too far for you. when before you and jasmine were close, you could always cab all the way down, even after midnight.
are you gonna say that we dont care?
1. when all of us felt that you were down and moody, we msned u to ask whats wrong. not once, not twice, but quite a few times. what did we get? your very cold attitude and replies like "nothing", "long story" and "dont feel like saying". we try to probe? we get ignored. then u go write stuff on your fb and twitter saying you wanna MIA and stuff. so we figured, maybe u want some time alone. and in the end, you say we are friends that dont care. unfair much???
2. about Jas bday. how much did you care?
yes, in the beginning, Jas did ask u to help plan her bday. but if i rmb correctly, the first date u settled on was the 19th. and then you wanted to change it to the 20th. everything was going fine, until Jas told you that she felt that 19th was a better date to celebrate. then you threw your temper at Jas, and everything snowballed from there. yeah i know, you had your own problems to settle. everything wasnt going exactly swell for you. but Jas didnt deserve to be treated that way either.
and from then, u refused to care an ounce about whatever Jas was doing for her bday, saying stuff like you arent free on the 19th. i personally texted you to ask if you and jasmine wanna share her present. no reply. if you cared enough, a late reply would be better than none.
then you emailed me asking about my fb status. and asked me who, when and where's the bday celebrations. i thought you were gonna tell me you were coming. and then...
yup. that's all i got from you. "oh. ok." i figured, if you really wanted to go, you wouldve said so already. so no point me asking AGAIN.
FYI, Jas was really disappointed that you didnt come, didnt share the present, and didnt even text/fb to wish her happy birthday. it was her 21st. all she wanted was to change the date of celebrations, keeping whatever activities you planned. but, apparently it was too much for you.
3. i hate cold wars. like how there's this problem and it remains unsolved cos both parties refuse to talk about it. so i decided to take the initiative to email you. sent you a super duper long email to just talk things out, and try to undo whatever misunderstandings in between. yes, i thought it was settled too. i thought everything was fine already. then the next thing i know, this blog entry of yours popped out of nowhere. and the little reply that followed your blog entry - totally uncalled for. if you dont know anything, dont comment.
stop making us look like we started this quarrel. stop making us look like we are the ones that are so 无情. and stop making us look like we are a whole bunch of lousy friends.
4. if you want to say that we are crap friends for not inviting you to Jas's celebrations, i'd beg to differ. Von's bday celebration. not a single one of us heard any news. and not a single one of us was invited. at least we made the effort to invite and inform.
5. wow, so now you have all the time in the world to plan holidays and getaways. i remember in the beginning, we were supposed to go taiwan together from such a long time ago. Jas and i even remember you saying "nobody can back out! if not pay for the rest of us!" so now am i supposed to get you to pay for our trip??? cos if i recall correctly, you just backed out on us. yes you probably had the best of reasons to do so. cant get away from work. but why do you have to act so 理直气壮 about it? a simple "sorry" wouldve helped a whole lot.
so now you're saying that we are this whole lot who are supposed to get off your train.
has it ever occured to you that instead, maybe you are the one stepping off all of our trains???
and to the rest of you who think that we are a whole bunch of mean, crappy, and lousy friends who dont care. think again. you could be in our shoes this time next year. then you will 'see the light'. much like how we saw ours.
ps. we are not the first to get this kinda treatment from her, just so y'know.
didnt wanna make a mountain out of a molehill but u just HAD to go write a blog entry like this. you, of all people, should really know how much i HATE HATE HATE being wronged. cos now you're making it sound like WE were the ones who picked a squabble, and made everything the way it is. making us look like we're the bad guys.
i suppose im saying this on behalf of the few of us.
you are disappointed? hell, WE ARE ALL DISAPPOINTED. with you.
one morning we just woke up and realised, you and jasmine are like BFFs, and we are nothing to you. and we dont even know why. suddenly, you dont call us anymore. suddenly, you are not free to meet up. suddenly, when we ask you to come meet us, west side is too far for you. when before you and jasmine were close, you could always cab all the way down, even after midnight.
are you gonna say that we dont care?
1. when all of us felt that you were down and moody, we msned u to ask whats wrong. not once, not twice, but quite a few times. what did we get? your very cold attitude and replies like "nothing", "long story" and "dont feel like saying". we try to probe? we get ignored. then u go write stuff on your fb and twitter saying you wanna MIA and stuff. so we figured, maybe u want some time alone. and in the end, you say we are friends that dont care. unfair much???
2. about Jas bday. how much did you care?
yes, in the beginning, Jas did ask u to help plan her bday. but if i rmb correctly, the first date u settled on was the 19th. and then you wanted to change it to the 20th. everything was going fine, until Jas told you that she felt that 19th was a better date to celebrate. then you threw your temper at Jas, and everything snowballed from there. yeah i know, you had your own problems to settle. everything wasnt going exactly swell for you. but Jas didnt deserve to be treated that way either.
and from then, u refused to care an ounce about whatever Jas was doing for her bday, saying stuff like you arent free on the 19th. i personally texted you to ask if you and jasmine wanna share her present. no reply. if you cared enough, a late reply would be better than none.
then you emailed me asking about my fb status. and asked me who, when and where's the bday celebrations. i thought you were gonna tell me you were coming. and then...
you: When's the bday ah? and where. Ha. Who's going?
me: Which bday? Samantha’s or Jas’s? LOL~ well, we’re going
to Clarke quay for dinner, this sat. then after that we see how. She wants to drink, but we havent decided on the place.
you: Jas la. Like I know Samantha like that. =.=" Eh. Whos going?
me: Kmiang Cheryl me jon karin & a few of their friends I think. Cel until now refuse to give a definite answer. but me and jas told her if we don’t see her face, she is dead. No excuses.
you: oh. ok.
yup. that's all i got from you. "oh. ok." i figured, if you really wanted to go, you wouldve said so already. so no point me asking AGAIN.
FYI, Jas was really disappointed that you didnt come, didnt share the present, and didnt even text/fb to wish her happy birthday. it was her 21st. all she wanted was to change the date of celebrations, keeping whatever activities you planned. but, apparently it was too much for you.
3. i hate cold wars. like how there's this problem and it remains unsolved cos both parties refuse to talk about it. so i decided to take the initiative to email you. sent you a super duper long email to just talk things out, and try to undo whatever misunderstandings in between. yes, i thought it was settled too. i thought everything was fine already. then the next thing i know, this blog entry of yours popped out of nowhere. and the little reply that followed your blog entry - totally uncalled for. if you dont know anything, dont comment.
stop making us look like we started this quarrel. stop making us look like we are the ones that are so 无情. and stop making us look like we are a whole bunch of lousy friends.
4. if you want to say that we are crap friends for not inviting you to Jas's celebrations, i'd beg to differ. Von's bday celebration. not a single one of us heard any news. and not a single one of us was invited. at least we made the effort to invite and inform.
5. wow, so now you have all the time in the world to plan holidays and getaways. i remember in the beginning, we were supposed to go taiwan together from such a long time ago. Jas and i even remember you saying "nobody can back out! if not pay for the rest of us!" so now am i supposed to get you to pay for our trip??? cos if i recall correctly, you just backed out on us. yes you probably had the best of reasons to do so. cant get away from work. but why do you have to act so 理直气壮 about it? a simple "sorry" wouldve helped a whole lot.
so now you're saying that we are this whole lot who are supposed to get off your train.
has it ever occured to you that instead, maybe you are the one stepping off all of our trains???
and to the rest of you who think that we are a whole bunch of mean, crappy, and lousy friends who dont care. think again. you could be in our shoes this time next year. then you will 'see the light'. much like how we saw ours.
ps. we are not the first to get this kinda treatment from her, just so y'know.
23 September 2009
22 September 2009
the long weekend just whizzed past like nobody's business. feels like a monday today. a quick recap of the drama over the weekend.
FRIDAY NIGHT @ BUTTER FACTORY
with the colleagues. got ourselves an area at the VIP section at fash. not lovin the music, but totally loving our private lil space. NOT LOVING what came next. was trying to squeeze our way to bump via the dark lil connecting place between fash and bump VIP, when some retardedmoronicshouldjustgooutandgetbangbycar FUCKERRRRRRRRRRRR stole my hp. i seriously curse him eternal damnation. he even had the audacity to say hi to me, just to shift my attention away from my hp in my pocket. and i was like thinking to myself "who the fuck are you? why say hi to me?!" and then i felt my hp slide out of my pocket! wanted to chase after the fucker but the person in front of me who was pulling me through the crowd refused to let go, thinking i might get lost in the crowd. until i screamed "SOMEONE STOLE MY PHONE!!!" then he let go. LOL~ anyway by then the fucker was gone. and when i dialed my own number on a friend's phone, it was turned off. THE FUCKER VERY FAST RIGHT... WAIT ONE DAY YOU GET CAUGHT, AND THEN GET YOUR HANDS CHOPPED OFF!!! and then because u are such a loser, no girl wants to fuck you, and then you dont have hands to masturbate. GOOD LUCK WITH THAT! seriously man, stealing in the VIP area??? u really dont deserve to be there then.
other than having my phone stolen, the rest of the night was pretty much FABULOUS!!! ;)
SATURDAY NIGHT @ CLARKE QUAY
its jas's 21st!!!!!!!!!! :) had dinner at hot stones, and then had haagen dasz fondue for dessert! complimentary brownie and ice cream for the bday girl~ yay!!! and then it was drinks at lunar. amazingly, it was actually quite fun that night! hahaha. could be the drinks. two consecutive nights of drinking is crazy for the liver and tummy. i gagged when jas brought over a whole tray of tequila shots. the smell literally made me feel drunk already. anyway, everyone was just mad happy and singing along to all the songs. and then cel had to go act like a little fan girl. LOL~ what came after we left lunar was seriously utterly HILARIOUS. jas, disgrace lah you! hahaha...
ended with supper at cck bus interchange there. i'll nv look at ban mian the same way again.
SUNDAY @ TOWN
woke up in the afternoon and went geylang for lunch with the parents and hubs. later on went to replace my sim card at singtel and then we went to watch WHITEOUT. it was okay. nothing to scream about. but cant say it sucks. went home after that, was a couch potato for a while. suppered with jas, karin and joyce afterwards. ya thanks to them, now the vasantham star song keeps ringing in my head. wahlau eh.
MONDAY @ HOME
slept till late. nuah-ed. coach potato-ed. with hubs. nuff said :)
pictures to come.... soon....
FRIDAY NIGHT @ BUTTER FACTORY
with the colleagues. got ourselves an area at the VIP section at fash. not lovin the music, but totally loving our private lil space. NOT LOVING what came next. was trying to squeeze our way to bump via the dark lil connecting place between fash and bump VIP, when some retardedmoronicshouldjustgooutandgetbangbycar FUCKERRRRRRRRRRRR stole my hp. i seriously curse him eternal damnation. he even had the audacity to say hi to me, just to shift my attention away from my hp in my pocket. and i was like thinking to myself "who the fuck are you? why say hi to me?!" and then i felt my hp slide out of my pocket! wanted to chase after the fucker but the person in front of me who was pulling me through the crowd refused to let go, thinking i might get lost in the crowd. until i screamed "SOMEONE STOLE MY PHONE!!!" then he let go. LOL~ anyway by then the fucker was gone. and when i dialed my own number on a friend's phone, it was turned off. THE FUCKER VERY FAST RIGHT... WAIT ONE DAY YOU GET CAUGHT, AND THEN GET YOUR HANDS CHOPPED OFF!!! and then because u are such a loser, no girl wants to fuck you, and then you dont have hands to masturbate. GOOD LUCK WITH THAT! seriously man, stealing in the VIP area??? u really dont deserve to be there then.
other than having my phone stolen, the rest of the night was pretty much FABULOUS!!! ;)
SATURDAY NIGHT @ CLARKE QUAY
its jas's 21st!!!!!!!!!! :) had dinner at hot stones, and then had haagen dasz fondue for dessert! complimentary brownie and ice cream for the bday girl~ yay!!! and then it was drinks at lunar. amazingly, it was actually quite fun that night! hahaha. could be the drinks. two consecutive nights of drinking is crazy for the liver and tummy. i gagged when jas brought over a whole tray of tequila shots. the smell literally made me feel drunk already. anyway, everyone was just mad happy and singing along to all the songs. and then cel had to go act like a little fan girl. LOL~ what came after we left lunar was seriously utterly HILARIOUS. jas, disgrace lah you! hahaha...
ended with supper at cck bus interchange there. i'll nv look at ban mian the same way again.
SUNDAY @ TOWN
woke up in the afternoon and went geylang for lunch with the parents and hubs. later on went to replace my sim card at singtel and then we went to watch WHITEOUT. it was okay. nothing to scream about. but cant say it sucks. went home after that, was a couch potato for a while. suppered with jas, karin and joyce afterwards. ya thanks to them, now the vasantham star song keeps ringing in my head. wahlau eh.
MONDAY @ HOME
slept till late. nuah-ed. coach potato-ed. with hubs. nuff said :)
pictures to come.... soon....
15 September 2009
12 September 2009
European Discovery 2009
Part II
realised i have yet to upload the links to part II of my europe trip. omg, procrastination much? HAHA~
-Rome/Vatican City-
-Florence-
-Lucerne-
-Paris-
-Paris/Disneyland-
-Paris-
im totally missing europe already...
Part II
realised i have yet to upload the links to part II of my europe trip. omg, procrastination much? HAHA~
-Rome/Vatican City-
-Florence-
-Lucerne-
-Paris-
-Paris/Disneyland-
-Paris-
im totally missing europe already...
08 September 2009
another pair of heels to add to the collection. both of us were on a shopping spree mood, it was quite mad. cos none of us were restraining each other. just buybuybuy! went home with 3 big bags. almost went home with a 4th bag. BUT... 1 of the 3 bags doesnt belong to the both of us ;)
G-force at cine (as usual) was mad cute! of course, cute guinea pigs sort of added brownie points to the very lack of substance script. but nevertheless, CUTE! i went home, grabbed my hamster and started shouting "G-FORCE!" in her face. i dont know why i did that. haha~
need to start getting ready to leave Home, wherever that may be. lots of places/people i call Home now, that i have to bid goodbye to very soon. its getting to me. like when someone on their dying bed will start to make preparations, hoping everything will be peaceful when he/she leaves. ive untangled a huge knot in my heart. settled that one part of my life that i felt totally iffy about. however at the same time, it seems another knot appeared. sigh...
just hope that when im far away in the other side of the globe, i can still be updated about all the great stuff that happens/will be happening here!
已经把该化解的误会都化解了... 以后，就交给你们了！:)
lunchtime!!! XD
G-force at cine (as usual) was mad cute! of course, cute guinea pigs sort of added brownie points to the very lack of substance script. but nevertheless, CUTE! i went home, grabbed my hamster and started shouting "G-FORCE!" in her face. i dont know why i did that. haha~
need to start getting ready to leave Home, wherever that may be. lots of places/people i call Home now, that i have to bid goodbye to very soon. its getting to me. like when someone on their dying bed will start to make preparations, hoping everything will be peaceful when he/she leaves. ive untangled a huge knot in my heart. settled that one part of my life that i felt totally iffy about. however at the same time, it seems another knot appeared. sigh...
just hope that when im far away in the other side of the globe, i can still be updated about all the great stuff that happens/will be happening here!
已经把该化解的误会都化解了... 以后，就交给你们了！:)
lunchtime!!! XD
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